"So many people trying to deny that the Apple SOC is just a much better product than anything from intel for many use cases."
And vice versa for many other use cases.
"Overall performance and efficiency is much better in most tasks"
Performance: Such a general statement is plainly wrong. Several reviewers have tested this. The correct statement is: it depends on a) use cases and b) chosen hardware of compared non-Apple-computers. In particular, Windows / Linux desktops are several times as fast as M1 Ultra for some use cases. A performance strength of M1 Pro / Max / Ultra seems to be video editing, however, testers have revealed that it also depends on which codecs are hardcoded. For some video editing tasks, Windows desktops are faster.
Efficiency: While the M1 surely is efficient for light tasks and may be good enough for many people, this is different than saying "for most tasks". It is hard to count numbers of different tasks to support or refute such a statement. It is more reasonable to speak of use cases. For heavy tasks, it depends on use cases whether M1 or Windows / Linux desktops are more efficient, as testers have found. In particular, heavy dGPU tasks tend to be more efficient on dGPUs than APUs.
"no ridiculous power draw"
There are such Windows / Linux systems as well. E.g., my Windows mini pc runs a 6W CPU.
Another thing is to compare compute-heavy tasks. For them, one can choose any power draw from low to high. If it shall be faster than M1 Ultra, then of course the power draw can be (much) higher up to utterly ridiculous levels.
"huge performance disparity on battery vs plugged in"
It depends on the notebook. Some have, others do not have, such disparity.
"heat and fan noise"
It depends on the chosen device. Levels can be low or high. Heat can be high while noise can still be low if the cooling is good. Etc. When Windows computers are configured to have heat and noise levels of M1 Pro or Max or Ultra, it depends on used softwares which is faster, as testers have found.
"better responsivness with limited RAM"
No. If RAM is the limit, it hurts any computer, whether Apple or non-Apple. E.g., Apple has greatly hurt responsivness of my iPad Mini 4 by its updates requiring more and more RAM. E.g., my Windows computers have slowed down when there has been too little RAM. Contrarily, they are very responsive as long as I do not use all the RAM.
"The stability and user experience is also much better with Apple and MacOS than any windows laptop"
Stability and user experience always depend on several factors incl. use cases. In Windows 95 or 98SE, it was bad. Since Windows 7, it has been mostly good but Windows requires some configuration (avoiding / deinstalling crapware, deactivating slow-down processes, using good drivers etc.) to achieve this. Without knowledge how to configure Windows, experience can be bad if, e.g., lots of bloatware causes problems.
Stability of i(Pad)OS has been reasonable as long as avoiding certain apps or use cases. However, some apps were or are extremely or decisively buggy and cause the greatest instability and worst user experience. In particular, during its first two years, the Files app was one of the two buggiest softwares I have ever seen (the other was Movie Maker of Vista). Currently, the Files app still contains a central bug than threatens all the user's files on the iPad. Stability is given only if one always recalls to avoid invoking this bug.
Maybe MacOS is more stable than iPadOS. I have not used MacOS. From reports, it seems to be reasonable desktop / notebook OS but is also not the holy grail of stability.
"no driver issues, no constant updates, no UI mess"
Same here on my Windows. It all depends on suitable configuration. Keeping things (e.g., the hardware or UI) simple helps. Of course, I update manually so that updates do not interrupt my workflow.
"milk their customers"
Only those wishing being milked. I used my previous Windows PC for 9.5 years and have heard of others using theirs longer.
"Macbook 16 Max is definitely the best laptop experience I have had. If you are skeptical maybe try one before writing nonsense opinions."
1) It does not make sense for me because I use software unavailable for MacOS.
2) As long as Apple, according to the iCloud terms, wants to use all my files and distribute them to anybody in the world and asks me more frequently than daily for that permission, I cannot trust Apple so much to buy new devices from it.