Quote from: Codrut Nistor on September 22, 2021, 06:24:36
Regarding the position on homophobic opinions and my personal opinion, on the other hand, it looks like I was completely misunderstood.
You weren't misunderstood, it's just become the preferred method of arguing to simply attack the person (ad hominem) rather than have a civilized discussion, because that's easier to do than actually present a real argument. So many people have developed the mindset that their beliefs are right and anyone who disagrees with them is wrong and that there's no room for discussion and those who have a differing opinion, or even dare to discuss a topic without condemning those who have a differing opinion, are automatically homophobic/racist/xenophobic/fascist/communist/extremist/etc, and apparently don't even realize their attitudes are very much anti-democratic, despite all their banter about democracy.
The irony of your ending up the object of so much critical commentary similar to the subject of your article, while likely lost on many leaving those comments, is sad, especially since your article was clearly
not homophobic but was simply discussing the implications of social media (a tech subject) in corporate politics (in a tech company) on this, a tech website. Or, at least, it was clear to me, since I didn't read it with an agenda to brand you a homophobe simply for not falling in line and agreeing with those that want anyone who doesn't share their total beliefs to be punished.
I'm all for holding people accountable for, and ideally stopping, harassment, discrimination, etc, but the fervor of those that want to bring down anyone who dares have an opinion they don't like is taking things too far. That's not what America is about. But these people don't care about that, and nobody can have civil discussions anymore, and so people on both sides just keep pushing each other farther and farther apart.
As for the article topic itself, aside from being old news, I don't think the outcry itself is an issue, as that's just people voicing their opinions, which
is what America is all about. And, I reiterate, it's extremely problematic when a group of people think
their opinion about another's opinion is not only fine, but that you must be bigoted to disagree with it and there is no other acceptable opinion. The issue is in these people's belief that
their opinions
must be upheld, by holding their target accountable for not sharing their beliefs. And at what point will the line be drawn? Will people soon be flooding social media with demands that an elected government official step down or be removed because they hold a certain faith? It's not that far of a leap.
The path to a better community isn't by demanding anyone who has different values or beliefs than you be censored and removed from whatever position they may hold, and certainly not by insulting and condemning someone for simply discussing a topic, it's in discourse and civility. "If you deny to anyone else the right to say what you think is wrong, it will not be long before you will lose the right to say what you think is right. Defense of the freedom of others is self-defense."