Again, laws of psychics haven't changed in the meantime, you're talking about different times when cpus lacked the throttling/wattage capabilities of today's chips. Fact, transistors don't do well with too much heat. Modern chips can still soak in heat, throttle or even slowly get damaged in the long term. And it's not just the chip itself, that heat can affect other components as well - LTT did a test recently about the gpu memory running at 100C, that's a good exemple.
Simply put, in layman's terms, it's like driving a car engine at maximum rpm because it is designed like that, and will last forever by doing so.
Anyways, to each his own. I'd rather keep my electronic devices within reasonable temp limits than reaching their upper limits designed by the vendor. There's plenty of information available online that explains it.