Funny how AMD fanboys are getting nervous and all over the place. I myself have a 4800H laptop, but I am able to accept the fact that maybe ADL will be better than what AMD has currently and for the time being.
AMD next product is zen 3 with vcache, which will bring better gaming and some improvements in benches, but nothing major. This product will be on the market until end of next year when zen 4 comes...so Intel has all the chances to regain performance lead with alder lake.
You say ddr5 comparison isn't fair? If it supports ddr5, then it is fair...people will be able to buy it with this kind of dram and get better performance than 5950x. What is the problem with that? Also, please take the time and read anandtech coverage of the new high performance/high efficiency cores. Especially the small cores are, at least from the description, a huge deal and could be on par with zen 1 IPC, if not even better. If that is the case, then it is no wonder that it matches 5950x in MT or even overtakes it. The biggest problem with alder lake will be price and power and I expect it to not be cheap and to consume quite a lot of power more than the 5950x. But at least Intel has a chance now to bridge the huge gap amd has created during the past years.